RESPECT This is tough stuff

  Who knew what we are supposed to do I got married at a very young age.  I attended a great moms group with awesome friends that taught me what respect and submissions were and being very much a rule follower I took it to the extreme. Every step of the way I would check with my husband before doing anything. In the past few years I have come to realize that I can be reaspectfull with out needing his permission. We have a budget set up this gives me the guidelines of what I can spend then how I spend it with in that is my choice.  Time is another thing that I am still working on. I used to feel that I needed to ask permission to take the kids and do anything with them now I am learning that I can manage my time and money together to be able to get more of the things I want to do done.   I can do these things without bothering my husband and that in turn relieves him stress when he is trying to work.  I am learning that at 32 I can do things on my own and still be there as a wife and in time I pray he sees this as a benefit for him as well.