Christ in Easter

So after taking a week off for our trip I have spent the last two trying to just catch up.
   April is now here and I missed a whole month of posts but to be honest I think I needed that time too catch up on some heart issues.  What is my heart saying that is most important in live.  Tonight I was asked that very thing. What is the priority list for life. To me it's easy family ,work then others. I know it should be the Lord, Family, and work others or even switch the last two.  So why then do I struggle so much? 
   The past few weeks these seem to be overwhelming to keep in place. But just yesterday I realized that this Easter I want different. I want to be Christ centered relaxed an at home with just the five of us.  How are we going to do that? I am still not sure. 
   I want my kids that are now 12, 10, 2 weeks away 8 to have a part in how and why we will do what we do.  
   If you have any suggestions please feel free to let me know them. I love any advice on this one.
Hope you have a blessed Easter.